I found this to be a very enlightening post filled with informative insights from both the Dominant’s and the submissive’s perspective.
For the Dominant, the following is a little insight into the submissive mind….
She wants to feel like she comes first in your life. As a submissive, I want to feel like I come first in my Master’s life. I know that sounds contrary to what many people think the M/s dynamic is but hear me out. I am expected to put my Master’s needs before my own. He comes first in all things. I get His drink before I get my own, at the dinner table I don’t start eating until He does, when others give me a choice for something I must first think of what Master would have me do and what would please Him the most before I give my answer, etc. It is my job to focus on His wants and needs, sexually, physically, and mentally, and to ensure they are all satisfied. If…
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